{"id":2095,"date":"2024-03-25T15:22:58","date_gmt":"2024-03-25T15:22:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/instinctivebehaviour.com\/?p=2095"},"modified":"2026-05-11T01:08:07","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T00:08:07","slug":"learning-difficulties-and-letters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instinctivebehaviour.com\/index.php\/2024\/03\/25\/learning-difficulties-and-letters\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning Difficulties and Letters"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; column_margin=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_tablet=&#8221;default&#8221; column_direction_phone=&#8221;default&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; row_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; row_border_radius_applies=&#8221;bg&#8221; row_position_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; row_position_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; row_position_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; overflow=&#8221;visible&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_tablet=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_phone=&#8221;inherit&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; flex_gap_desktop=&#8221;10px&#8221; column_element_direction_desktop=&#8221;default&#8221; column_element_spacing=&#8221;default&#8221; desktop_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_backdrop_filter=&#8221;none&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; column_position=&#8221;default&#8221; gradient_direction=&#8221;left_to_right&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/1&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; animation_type=&#8221;default&#8221; bg_image_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; border_type=&#8221;simple&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221; text_direction=&#8221;default&#8221;]As someone on the autism spectrum, Madi Mai highlights the importance of raising awareness about mental health and learning difficulties. These topics are more openly discussed today, yet they are still far from being fully normalised.<\/p>\n<p>Madi admits she was bullied at school and struggled socially for some time. \u201cI was bullied a lot because I didn\u2019t act how everyone else did. I found it hard to communicate things and really had to teach myself how to function.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"max-width: 100%; height: auto;\" src=\"https:\/\/instinctivebehaviour.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/08e654_bc5259aa4bfd4eceab1567e18fbf0e54mv2.jpeg\" alt=\"Madi Mai Awareness on Autism\" \/><\/p>\n<p>People with ASD are born with it, and challenges usually begin in the first couple of years of life. It\u2019s common to have trouble communicating and relating to others. As Madi grew aware of this, she worked on her social skills and ways of expression. \u201cI developed this need to express myself creatively through art, fashion, makeup, etc.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She explains that autism allows her to hyper-fixate, giving her a greater passion for the things she loves. \u201cI\u2019m quite good at maintaining friendships because I see them as special. I\u2019m very aware.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"max-width: 100%; height: auto;\" src=\"https:\/\/instinctivebehaviour.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/08e654_3c8f67798ce64557aa1d96032cd56601mv2.jpeg\" alt=\"Madi Mai Creativity\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Her song <em>Letter from Louise<\/em> was inspired by letters Madi and her friends exchanged during the first lockdown. The song reflects long-distance friendships maintained without social media, which had become a major form of communication.<\/p>\n<p>The girls put tremendous effort into the letters, adding perfume, dried flowers, and even tea stains to make them appear old. Madi says, \u201cMy friends and I became even closer because of this,\u201d highlighting how important maintaining friendships is to her. The letters helped them escape the demotivating bubble of lockdown and were great for mental wellbeing.<\/p>\n<p>Madi encourages her followers to educate themselves by sharing information on her Instagram stories. She stresses how harmful it is when people react with surprise or make remarks like, \u201cbut you don\u2019t look autistic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAutism can look like anything. It doesn\u2019t have to be this strange thing you\u2019ve come up with in your head\u2026 these sorts of things should be normalised more. Ok \u2013 you\u2019ve got a learning difficulty \u2013 it\u2019s not a big deal! It doesn\u2019t look like any specific thing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important for people to educate themselves and others to improve understanding. 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